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Rest Is Medicine For You Too
Rest Is Medicine For You Too You prescribe rest to your patients every day. You tell them to slow down, reduce stress, prioritize sleep, and recover from overexertion.But how often do you take your own advice? In medicine, rest is often treated like a weakness. Something to be earned, delayed, or minimized. But here’s the truth: Rest isn’t optional. It’s biological. And for physicians, it’s also ethical. What Happens When You Don’t Rest When physicians push through day after
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Nov 15, 20252 min read


Medicine Needs Boundaries Too
Medicine Needs Boundaries Too Medicine Needs Boundaries Too Medicine asks for your time, your focus, your heart—and sometimes, your entire life. We’re trained to say yes. To go the extra mile. To be the one who stays late, answers the page, and stretches just a little further. But the truth is, you can’t practice excellent medicine if you’re chronically overextended. Boundaries don’t make you less of a doctor—they make you a sustainable one. The Cost of Boundary-less Medicin
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Nov 11, 20252 min read


Not Every Day Has to Be Heroic
Not Every Day Has to Be Heroic Medicine often feels like a marathon of high-stakes moments. Code blues. Diagnoses caught just in time. Sleepless nights. Long shifts.We’re taught to believe that every day should be extraordinary, life-saving, and flawless. But here’s a truth many physicians need to hear: Not every day has to be heroic. Perfection Is Not the Standard In training, we internalize impossible expectations: Be alert, compassionate, and efficient at all times Don’t
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Nov 8, 20252 min read


Still Here? That’s Strength.
Still Here? That’s Strength. You’re still standing. Still showing up. Still caring. Even when you're exhausted.Even when the system feels broken.Even when it feels like you're giving more than you have to spare. In a profession that glorifies self-sacrifice and perfectionism, we rarely pause to acknowledge the quiet, daily strength it takes just to keep going. But make no mistake: Your presence is power. Survival Isn’t Weakness It’s Wisdom Sometimes showing up doesn't mean be
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Nov 4, 20252 min read


You’re Allowed to Ask: “Is This Working for Me?”
You’re Allowed to Ask: “Is This Working for Me?” You ask hard questions every day for your patients. You evaluate symptoms. You weigh treatment risks. You question what's sustainable and what's not.But when’s the last time you turned that same level of insight inward? Too many physicians go years, even decades, without ever asking themselves the most important question of all: “Is this working for me?” Why Doctors Stop Questioning Their Own Reality In medicine, we’re conditio
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Nov 1, 20252 min read


Reclaim the Parts of You That Medicine Forgot
Reclaim the Parts of You That Medicine Forgot You weren’t always just a doctor. Before the pager. Before the notes. Before the relentless schedule, the night shifts, the checkboxes, and the protocols—there was you . A whole person, full of interests, curiosity, humor, and vision. But in the process of becoming a physician, too many parts of you were set aside. Pushed down. Delayed until “someday.” And for many physicians, that “someday” never comes. Unless you decide it does.
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 28, 20252 min read


Who Are You Outside the Clinic?
Who Are You Outside the Clinic? Doctor. Clinician. Healer. Problem-solver. These identities are powerful. They’ve shaped your career, your reputation, and the way people relate to you. But what happens when they become all-consuming? When the only version of you that gets time, attention, and space is the one wearing the white coat? In medicine, it’s easy to let your professional identity swallow the rest of your life. But you were a whole person long before you became a phys
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 25, 20252 min read


From Employed to Empowered: The Physician Career Pivot
From Employed to Empowered: The Physician Career Pivot If you feel trapped in your current role, you’re not alone. But you’re also not stuck. Many physicians stay in employed positions far longer than they want to not because they love the work, but because they fear the unknown. The fear of leaving the system. The fear of change. The fear that independence is “too hard” or “too risky.” But for thousands of doctors, the pivot from employed to independent practice has become t
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 21, 20252 min read


Independent Physicians Call the Shots
Independent Physicians Call the Shots Who’s really making the decisions in your practice? If you’re employed by a hospital or large...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 18, 20252 min read


Your Practice, Your Rules: The Beauty of Autonomy
Your Practice, Your Rules: The Beauty of Autonomy What if you didn’t have to ask permission to practice good medicine? As physicians,...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 14, 20252 min read


Can You Be a Doctor and Have a Life? Independent MDs Say Yes
Can You Be a Doctor and Have a Life? Independent MDs Say Yes Medicine isn’t supposed to cost you everything. Yet that’s how many...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 11, 20252 min read


The Lifestyle Flexibility of Direct Care Models
The Lifestyle Flexibility of Direct Care Models Medicine doesn’t have to be all-consuming. The traditional practice model has convinced...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 7, 20252 min read


Control Your Fees, Your Schedule, Your Future
Control Your Fees, Your Schedule, Your Future You trained for years to become a physician so why is someone else still making all the...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Oct 4, 20252 min read


Owning Your Schedule: A Prescription for Physician Wellness
Owning Your Schedule: A Prescription for Physician Wellness What would your life look like if you controlled your time again? In...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 30, 20252 min read


Why Owning Your Practice Is the Ultimate Job Security
Why Owning Your Practice Is the Ultimate Job Security Think your employed position is secure? Think again. Healthcare systems are...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 27, 20252 min read


Designing the Life You Want One Patient at a Time
Designing the Life You Want One Patient at a Time You didn’t go into medicine to feel powerless. Yet that’s exactly how many physicians...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 27, 20252 min read


Work Less, Earn More: The Truth About Private Practice
Work Less, Earn More: The Truth About Private Practice Yes, it’s possible. No, it’s not too good to be true. One of the most persistent...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 23, 20252 min read


Take Back Your Time: A Life Beyond 15-Minute Visits
Take Back Your Time: A Life Beyond 15-Minute Visits Fifteen minutes isn’t enough for anyone. Not for the complex, stressed, chronically...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 20, 20252 min read


Physician Independence as Preventive Medicine—for Doctors
Physician Independence as Preventive Medicine—for Doctors We counsel patients on prevention every day but how often do we apply that...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 16, 20252 min read


From Burned Out to Balanced: Life After Leaving the System
From Burned Out to Balanced: Life After Leaving the System Burnout isn’t a failure. It’s a signal. A signal that the way you’re being...
Dr. John Hayes Jr.
Sep 13, 20252 min read
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