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Still Here? That’s Strength.

  • Writer: Dr. John Hayes Jr.
    Dr. John Hayes Jr.
  • Nov 4
  • 2 min read
Still Here? That’s Strength.
Still Here? That’s Strength.

You’re still standing. Still showing up. Still caring. Even when you're exhausted.Even when the system feels broken.Even when it feels like you're giving more than you have to spare.

In a profession that glorifies self-sacrifice and perfectionism, we rarely pause to acknowledge the quiet, daily strength it takes just to keep going. But make no mistake:

Your presence is power.


Survival Isn’t Weakness It’s Wisdom

Sometimes showing up doesn't mean being at your best. It means:

  • Taking the next patient when you're still carrying the last

  • Writing the note even when your brain is fogged

  • Keeping your cool in chaotic, unsupportive systems

  • Offering calm while you’re fighting your own internal storm

You might not feel heroic but what you’re doing matters. Deeply.


The Stories You’ll Never Hear About

You won’t get a trophy for catching subtle symptoms. No administrator will notice the family meeting that changed a patient’s course. No chart audit can measure the quiet moment of connection you gave someone who was afraid.

But those things save lives. And they help you remember who you are beneath the exhaustion.

“If no one’s told you lately: You’re doing more than enough.”

Strength Doesn’t Mean Staying Stuck

Yes, you’re strong.But that doesn’t mean you have to keep living in survival mode. Strength also looks like:

  • Asking for help

  • Rethinking your path

  • Resting before you break

  • Saying, “I want more than just making it through”


Reflection Prompt

What would it feel like to not just get through the week—but to feel proud of how you’re living it?


Ready to Do More Than Just Make It?

If you’re tired of surviving, and ready to start thriving—there’s a path forward.

📅 Book a strategy session with Dr. John Hayes Jr., MDLet’s talk about how to move beyond burnout and rediscover the version of you that medicine needs—and you deserve.

 
 
 

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